What Makes a Happy Couple?
While we might want to give and receive unconditional love, the “unconditional” part often comes with many conditions, including expectations and disappointment. We cannot take a magic pill for this to happen: connected couples work on their relationship to keep it strong. Anyone can experience this kind of deep connection, as long as they are willing to work for it.
You might believe that connected couples never fight. In fact, deeply connected couples are better fighters and lovers because of their open and honest communication skills. What is the difference between a disconnected and a connected couple? Which habits can make the difference in the success of our relationship.
Disconnected Couples V. Connected Couples
| Anger | Patience |
| Defensiveness | Openness |
| Silence/Withdrawal | Nurture Common Interests |
| Avoidance | Curiosity About One Another |
| Criticism | Kindness |
| Turning Away From One Another | Keeping Intimacy Alive |
When we put in the work to connect with our partners, we can enjoy a more fulfilling relationship. Turning toward one another, considering new ways in which we can contribute to our relationship, and treating each other with kindness are key elements in enjoying a more fulfilling, connected partnership.
